13 Things You Should Know About First Impressions
From your smile to your handshake-here’s the scoop on meeting someone for the first time.
You never get a second chance, the saying goes, to make a first impression. It turns out you may
not even get that. Within 50 milliseconds of seeing someone’s face, you unconsciously make decisions that will influence your interactions.
Those 50 milliseconds are difficult to overcome, says University of Toronto psychology professor Nicholas Rule. “Every time you see someone, even if it’s someone you really know, you’re making that first impression again.”
Older faces are more telling than young ones. After decades of frowning, for example, a senior’s muscles adopt an angrier baseline expression. So smile more-it won’t hurt in the short term either.
Yet another benefit of looking young: Leslie Zebrowitz, of Brandeis University in Massachusetts, has concluded that “babyfaceness” correlates to the likelihood of winning a court case.
Be conscious of body language. Don’t cross your arms, don’t slouch or fidget, and maintain eye contact and nod to indicate you’re paying attention.
Ditch digital for the real thing. According to a trio of 2014 University of British Columbia studies, we make better first impressions face to face than through pictures
First impressions have an evolutionary basis: early humans needed to quickly detect whether a person might deceive them or make for a suitable mate.
If you’re doing the judging, listen to your gut. Studies maintain that people can correctly determine a CEO’s profitability and even a person’s sexual orientation from a glimpse of their face.